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user-inactivated  ·  3171 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How do I deal with my parents' possessive control of me?

    You've done me good, in the past - I, too, am there if you want to talk.

Thanks. I appreciate it.

Well, your solution is... radical, to say the least. A year or two ago, I would have agreed with you, most probably, but still wouldn't go for it. Thankfully, some people in this very comment section have already shown me that there are better ways to do it. I'll use the benefits I have towards me, and in the meantime I'll do my best to rebuild myself into a person I want to be. I've survived 20 full-contact years with my parents - I can do four more, especially since those are separated.

Still, thanks for sharing the solution. I may be able to scrape the ideas for something that fits better into the general plan.