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nobodycares  ·  3173 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Boyfriend Trouble...Do I have a lying problem?

Well I think in some cases your boyfriend may be overreacting. He doesn't have to know what you are doing every moment of your life, and he definitely doesn't need to do a weekly audit of your checking account. Your money is your own business, not his. But if you spent $200 while shopping and told him you only spent $30, then maybe you have a problem. For the most part, you should tell him the truth, and if he gets angry, apologize, unless it was an ridiculously absurd thing to get angry at. Maybe you should consult a therapist instead of asking the internet. But that's just my opinion.