I've always been amazed by what, to me (as someone who doesn't partake of this), seems to be the absolute lack of anything resembling common decency or respect of boundaries that is the bar hookup scene for men: "Women have become sick enough of being objectified at bars that they've gone to a space designed to provide a place for homosexual men to meet and greet. I will internalize the fact that the women who are frequenting these bars likely have no desire to be hit on and would be likely more offended that they are being approached in a space that is the metaphorical equivalent of a neon sign saying "Take the Hint" than if I had attempted to do so in a regular bar. Now let me throw that logic out the window and continue to follow my dick." I would love for someone to explain this to me because in my twenty-something years on this Earth it is something I've never understood.