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randomuser  ·  1506 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Please stop trying to get me to do something "because it's sexy."

    Stop it. Stop telling me what I need to do to have worth. Stop thinking you can convince me to do something because YOU find it attractive. Where did you get this attitude from? What makes you think I have any interest in impressing you?

In my experience, girls mostly tear other girls down, guys tend to care way less. I generally try I convince my gf that she's prettier without makeup, but what has been explained to me is that the makeup isn't for my sake. Girls are way harder on each other/themselves than guys are, outside of the internet at least. And the opinions of guys hiding behind computers commenting about girls just feel terrible about themselves and are taking it out on girls that would reject them under normal circumstances. Those opinions shouldn't matter to anyone anyway.