Okay, so the women who say that the industry isn't the misogynistic wasteland described by other women then are invalid experiences in your opinion? Where did you pull out women having had ubiquitously negative experiences in gaming from (and I'm assuming by you throwing in STEM into that, a field I'm a part of where both my undergraduate and graduate class were about half women and half men, you believe these ubiquitously negative experiences extend into it also). I absolutely believe many women have had negative experiences (yes, in STEM too) but to just make a sweeping suggesting that ALL women have had negative experiences is absurd. And not helping. Yes, point out the flaws but don't create false narratives and don't flat out lie and label anyone who is disagreeing with you a misogynist. Some of them might be, but I doubt most are. In fact, from my experience in STEM and the gaming community most certainly aren't and also point out many of the issues with inspiring women to join the communities. A few are, but they are just a few. From my experience.

And his problem, if you paid attention to what he wrote, isn't women pointing out problems. It's specific women creating problems or manipulating the few vocal misogynists to turn personal gain out of a movement that is supposed to bring about equality and inclusion for all women who are interested in the industry. At no point did he say women pointing out problems is his problem.