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girlinwriting  ·  3411 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How selfish is too selfish?

That's fair. And, in that case we can default to the "actions speak louder than words" scenario.

However, the reason behind why you do not give can still define your level of selfishness.

There's a big difference between me being willing to help you on moving day but having to work that day vs. me being "willing" to help you but staying home to watch Netflix 'cause I'm in the middle of a season.