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goo  ·  3470 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lying to Myself // To the Small Town of Hubski

Like TheVenerableCain, I don't particularly have any investment in this whole situation... But I will happily share my opinion!

I think a lot of this may stem from an unhealthy self-centered mindset, ThatFanficGuy. I encourage you to take yourself out of the position of "victim" to get a perspective on this whole thing. Instead of saying, "How has this offended me?", try, "How might I have offended someone else?" As a society, we are far too reluctant to explore the idea that we may be wrong and have a little empathy.

No one will hate you for what has happened here. We are not living in your world. You are just as meaningless to me as I am to you, and whether or not you can accept that is up to you.

EDIT: ThatFanficGuy, I may have stalked you a little. You seem to have narcissistic tendencies - I encourage you to seek counselling, as they will be able to help you sort through your thoughts far better than anyone on the Internet could.