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i would really love it if you could expand on why you say selfish. I am worried if I phrase this question in any more specific way I might 'lead' your answer into something like my own thoughts inadventently, so I don't want to throw in any more than "Coukd you please talk about that more?" right now.

I am also pretty firmly of the mindset that a certain amount of 'selfishness' is necessary and good in life.