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I spent a lot of time talking about this exact thing with my therapist today. He hasn't convinced me yet but we're getting there. One thing he brought up is why are you comparing yourself to perfection at such a young age, when you don't have the perspective or experience to know if your version of perfection is right.A new coworker said to me today something very important which I have needed to hear: "Do not strive for perfection. Perfection is an end state and it stagnates. What you need is creativity and a willingness to make and learn from your mistakes." I'm sure she didn't realize how badly I needed to hear it.