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JackTheBandit  ·  3736 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: At Group Sex Parties, Strict Rules Make for Safe Spaces

So, relevant story. We (girlfriend and I) were visiting a friend who lives at an undisclosed Brooklyn location. While there, others were setting up for an event later in the evening. It was a pretty atmospheric setup, massage areas, well done ambient lighting, "cuddle puddle" areas, other sexual paraphernalia. Obviously we inquired and it turns out the deco was for a Chemistry event. The organizers had asked our opinions of their work and even offered to let us participate for a reduced fee (which was still too high for an impulse decision.) To this day, I still wonder about what could've happened that night.