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kleinbl00  ·  3777 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Who(m) have you muted?

So many wrong ideas about muting around here.

Know who you should mute?

The people that are going to drag you into pointless fights about nothing.

Know who I have muted?

The people who have demonstrated desire to drag me into pointless fights about nothing.

Let's be clear: I have a 9th dan black belt in Internet Dickishness. I stopped counting the number of people I caused to straight-up delete their Reddit accounts. You can win fights so decisively that the other party QQs in shame. I even got good at the "thermonuclear downvote" - here's what a comment chain that delivers -400 Internet Points looks like.

But let's be clear: these sorts of things are bad for the community.

I'm a big fan of muting. The reason is simple. It keeps me from engaging in unrestricted warfare in a demilitarized zone.

There are arguments worth winning and there are arguments worth ignoring and there are people who are primarily interested in talking to you so they can get a rise out of you. And while the zen monk approach is "wax on, wax off" I am not a zen monk.

"Mute" allows me to leave the sword in the scabbard. And that is to everyone's advantage.