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nowaypablo · 3935 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: What's the Difference Between Secrecy and Privacy?
I think I have experienced periods of genuine trust (albeit brief periods) in the few relationships ive had so far, but the majority as you suggest have been quite "space sharing" i suppose.. You're certainly right that making yourself completely vulnerable is a proactive way to earn trust, simply by showing trust to your partner. I'm just wondering how one does that, with all the subtext and hidden meaning that you mentioned (and I so dearly despise), it feels stupid to offer a direct and straightforward message like that to be speared instantly, taken advantage of.