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user-inactivated  ·  4236 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Question: Has anyone ever been "thrown out" or asked to leave your parents' house?

Yes. Not as a permanent thing, similar to refugee's story. More of a, it'd be best if you weren't here for a day or so. Since I thought it'd be best if I was never there again but it just made too much sense to live somewhere for free^, I complied with alacrity.

I got in exactly one physical altercation with my father in the 18 years I lived at home -- and it was his fault, and he knew it, so I didn't get thrown out. But I never spent a day in that house that I didn't have to; I had a friend whose doors were always open. Probably saved my life.

My parents were extremely bad child-raisers, but in general very "cool" people -- I'm working on repairing our relationship (sort of), as b_b mentions below ... the quicker you get out the quicker you become friends again.

^minus the opportunity cost of emotional trauma, I suppose. And chores.