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user-inactivated  ·  3684 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I'm the Duke University Freshman Porn Star and for the First Time I'm Telling the Story in my Words

She was naive to think it would stay a secret (very!), but:

    When someone uncovers a secret of yours, they uncover essentially a clear vulnerability. If you simply admit to whatever is thrown at you, and even "own" it - "Yes I did that, so what?" - it is harder for it to be used as a source of attack.

...will she be able to get a job?