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user-inactivated · 3995 days ago · link · · parent · post: I'm the Duke University Freshman Porn Star and for the First Time I'm Telling the Story in my Words
She was naive to think it would stay a secret (very!), but: ...will she be able to get a job?When someone uncovers a secret of yours, they uncover essentially a clear vulnerability. If you simply admit to whatever is thrown at you, and even "own" it - "Yes I did that, so what?" - it is harder for it to be used as a source of attack.