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I agree. In any attempt to change our lives, change our identities (gender, religious affiliation), or change our location, there are always multiple factors to consider. In some cases our direction is so clear that, while we are sympathetic with those who are affected by our decision, we proceed regardless. Those are the most significant and interesting transformations. In rboone's post suggests that he is running into obstruction as he seeks his line of flight. He fairly considers the other positions, but finds he has to continue his process of differentiation. To be healthy, I believe we all have to do this. (You think?)