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lil  ·  4052 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Do I Say Next? A Love Story for Shy People

Lil: Hey

Ben: Hey

Silence

Silence

(Five hours later)

Lil: That was awesome.

Ben: Fabulous. Great time.





b_b  ·  4052 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Sounds wonderful. I've found myself caught in a situation the last few days where I am forced to sit and listen to 13 other people make uncomfortable small talk for hours at a stretch (in a jury sequester room; I would love to talk about it, but I can't yet legally do so, although I have been composing a Hubski post about the experience in my head). I am the one dude who brings a book (hooray for getting Blood Meridian read for Hubski book club!), and doesn't speak to anyone else. I think it weirds the rest of the people out, but I won't change my behavior just to not come off as weird or eccentric or disinterested. I don't know why people's mouths have to constantly be in motion to make them feel comfortable.