I am originally from California, about and hour outside LA without traffic. I'm staying in a small town in the northeast with my girlfriends family. We came out here to deal with things related to the death of her grandfather on her mothers side. It has been like nothing I've ever experienced, having spent a month here, I've definitely acquired a new found appreciation for the simplicity of life that I have had the opportunity to observe as well as be a part of. Also the natural beauty of this place is for lack of a better word awesome. Finally I've had to shut my mouth and listen for the first time in a long time which is in itself a humbling experience. Not to mention the food and beer is as good as it is cheap always a plus.
Sorry to hear about your girlfriends grandfather. It sounds like you are in an interesting place and are truly experiencing "new" things. I hope you are able to make the most of it. Many people, myself included, get stuck in routines and never get a chance to experience new things on that scale. -I'm envious of that aspect of your situation, though I'm sorry it was death that brought it to you. Enjoy that food and beer!