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i48998  ·  5085 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Roger Ebert: I do not fear death
The thing about human death is, that you have to wonder who is dying of you. You as an infant already died if you grew up to be a youth, and you as a youth died when you grew up to be an adult....So on and so forth.

It is obvious already that individual constantly undergoes changes. The analogy here is with caterpillar - chrysalis - butterfly. So if we're not afraid of growing up (transforming from one stage of life to another) than how is physical death any different?





mk  ·  5084 days ago  ·  link  ·  
Interesting point. I often wonder at my younger selves, what it would be like to meet them.

The caterpillar - butterfly thing is interesting. I wonder if a butterfly retains any caterpillar memory, or if it is a clean slate. That really would be two lives, only connected by physical material. Like me and so many other creatures that came before that used these atoms. Well, I guess the like the creatures I've consumed too.

thenewgreen  ·  5084 days ago  ·  link  ·  
I think about the conversation that I would have with my younger self occasionally. I wonder how much of my life I would have to justify? I'm thankful that it's a very, very small amount. No one ever grows up thinking they'll be a "financial planner" or a "dental hygienist", most of us were going to be astronauts or the President.

What I know now, is that a good career is fulfilling on a level, provides financially and gives you enough time to pursue your passions. A great career IS your passion.

I have a "good" career. I think the younger version of myself would approve.

Also, in a previous post (I forget where, perhaps you can remind me) @mk mentioned that one of the gifts of aging is "self confidence" or a lack of insecurity... I forget the phrasing. Either way, you are totally right. I think our younger selves would be impressed with how confident we are. Don't you?

mk  ·  5084 days ago  ·  link  ·  
I think it was that aging gave the gift of "not giving a shit".

I would like to think I pass the younger self test. The teenage mk would be the most critical, of course. I was very sensitive to hypocrisy at that time, and I don't think I'm guilty of much. I like my current job. I'm not sure I see a great career as my passion, however. I think I see it as one that enables me to be more of myself, and perform less duties that aren't of my design. Maybe I just say that because I don't have so much of a singular passion, but get jazzed about so many different things.

I don't know about the confidence thing. I think my younger self and I traded some confidences. It's an interesting thought.