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kleinbl00  ·  2223 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: America's addiction to the politics of anger

Your perspective, while admirable and worthy of emulation, is inapplicable to the situation at hand.

Sure - people individually are great. People as a group are shit. There's a platitude I coined - "the collective intelligence of any group is inversely proportional its size" - that I've stopped using because nobody smarter or more famous than me has popularized it. It doesn't make it any less true.

When talking about group social perspectives, we're not dealing with individuals.

650,436 people cast a vote for Roy Moore. I'm never going to talk to a single one of them. None of them give the first fuck what I think. There will never be an opportunity for me to sit down in a rap session with a single one of them to pass around the talking stick, sip some warm cocoa and gently expound on why a racist child molester twice expelled from the bench is a poor choice for representing their interests in the Senate.

But vote for him they did. They felt that a racist child molester twice expelled from the bench was exactly what my country needs to deal with. So us elitists over here on the Left Coast with our sanctuary cities and paid family leave can suck it.

You can sing koom bay ya about that all you want: I'll bet I could find something admirable about each and every one of them. I'll bet we could hang out drinking sweet tea and eating pimento sandwiches and having a jolly good time. But the fact of the matter is, they think my courts and schools need more Jesus and disagreeing with them, however politely or convincingly, will not dissuade them in their quest. Because, you see, from a national standpoint we've determined that we get no Jesus in courts and schools and they need to change that for everyone.

It's fucking hilarious that we're talking about those poor marginalized white people. Those poor marginalized Christians. Those poor marginalized gun owners. Are they capable of change? Not really.

    On an individual level, of course, many people’s political views evolve over the course of their lives. But academic research indicates not only that generations have distinct political identities, but that most people’s basic outlooks and orientations are set fairly early on in life. As one famous longitudinal study of Bennington College women put it, “through late childhood and early adolescence, attitudes are relatively malleable…with the potential for dramatic change possible in late adolescence or early adulthood. [B]ut greater stability sets in at some early point, and attitudes tend to be increasingly persistent as people age.”

So the 20-year-old Nazis? Yeah, there's maybe hope for them. The 50-year-old Nazis? Goose-steppers until they die.

Yeah it ain't good right now. That doesn't mean it's gonna get any better by saying "so what do you Nazis really want?" They wanna Nazi. Full stop. What's changed? They've been emboldened to Nazi. How do you deal with Nazis? Curb-stomp 'em.

Individually? Collectively? We stand to benefit more through shame and alienation than we do by mainlining. Make no mistake - conservative politics have gone completely around the bend (been shot at? Been on TV? It's probably because you're a crisis actor, not a victim). The way to nip that in the bud is through zero tolerance.

I grew up with the Moral Majority demanding prayer in school. What happened? They went so fuckin' crazy against gays, drugs, punk, rock, fun that the kids stopped coming to church. Now the evangelicals are sucking wind and it's glorious.

Granted, I'd trade Jim Bakker and Ted Haggard for Alex Jones any day. But I also know that acting as if Alex Jones is somehow okay is the fastest way to breed Alex Joneses.

I'm fine. My family is fine. My community is fine. Those crazy fucks insisting national parks are communist and that we oughtta arm teachers? They're a problem and I ain't normalizing them.





Devac  ·  2222 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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kleinbl00  ·  2222 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    "The IQ of a mob is the IQ of its most stupid member divided by the number of mobsters."

Epic. Thanks.

user-inactivated  ·  2222 days ago  ·  link  ·  

My philosophy is applicable in this situation because it is applicable in every situation. To live is to influence and be influenced by the world, while the effects and degrees may change over time, it is an inescapable fact of life.

I think it’s important that I point out again that I never have nor will I ever take up the position that we should tolerate or normalize bigotry, fanaticism, or extremism. However, I do think that we can not use that as an excuse to shut people out of our lives, especially if we’re to have any hope for change. Who has a better chance of kicking heroin? A man who is isolated and alone, a man who allows himself to be in the company of other drug users, or a man who is surrounded by love ones and medical professionals who are patient, understanding, and supportive? Who has a better chance of reintegrating into society after they’re released from prison? A man who is isolated and alone, a man who allows himself to be in the company of other criminals, or a man who is surrounded by people willing to help him find a home, a job, and a sense of normalcy? We cannot solve problems of social ills by cordoning people off and ignoring them. Problems must be faced head on, otherwise they’ll perpetuate themselves in the dark until one day the problems break out into the world again throwing things into disarray.

One of the difficulties many of us have, including me, is the unrealistic desire for swift and complete change in individuals and groups. We want people to realize how destructive their behavior is and sometimes we think and act and speak in hopes that if we just say and do the right things, others will magically realize the error of their ways and aim to do right. It doesn’t work that way though, because there are so many mechanisms that make change slow and gradual, once again, both for individuals as well as groups. But that slow gradual change is often more enduring and more impactful than abrupt changes, for many reasons, some I know and understand, some I don’t. Abrupt, forced change though? It’s pretty fragile and can quickly become undone.

We can take heart though in the fact that as certain situations get worse and worse, more people are able to realize them for what they are and are motivated to address them. As many steps back this country has taken in the course of history, it’s taken many, many more forward, and it will continue to do so as long as enough members of society take a conscious effort to make change.

As for individuals, young and old, even if they’re incapable of changing completely, any small step towards progress is a victory that should be recognized and celebrated. Our behaviors compound on top of each other, for better or for worse. So even the slightest change in a person, whether it’s being a little more accepting, a little more understanding, a little more kind, will ripple out and impact the world in a positive way. Conversely, we need to be more mindful of who we are and where we are, because a little anger, a little insensitivity, a little carelessness, can have similar effects.

Me personally? I’m not perfect. In fact, I’m a pretty big fuck up. But I understand the importance of that concept and I embrace it wholly and I strive to be a little better each day, to change a bit more each day, and I think if you compared me now to who I was five or ten years ago, you’d see a very different person. Hopefully for the better.

I’m afraid of this conversation devolving into circular talk and hair splitting and nit picking. You’ve said your bit and I said mine, so I’ll just leave with this thought. We don’t have to actively seek out racists and lend them a hand, if that’s not what we want to do. We don’t have to actively try and change people’s minds, if that’s not what we want to do. We have our own lives, we have our own limits, we have our own problems. But when people come into our lives, however briefly, we should strive to do our best, because when people interact with us, they take a piece of us with them, so let’s make it wholesome and good.