I've had a couple of realizations about the kind of people I am attracted to, and the kind of people who are attracted to me, and how that interacts with my relationship with people in general...so maybe that's a plus?
Realizations are a huge plus. But we only learn about love from those real-world people that wash up on our shore, not those we imagine exist. So onward, onward into the fray. Note: pm me current address. I have a radio postcard to mail you.