I also agree with lil below, non-monogamy sounds like a whole lot of work. -No thanks. I wish Hubski had better search, I'd love to scan it for all b_b pre-marriage, marriage references. Aunt cunt face is still an all time favorite.Would I like to see a world where my wife (I don't have one; just speaking hypothetically) has multiple partners? Frankly, no. I'm just not that enlightened.
Now that you are married, have you become enlightened? My guess is that you are even less so. That said, I don't think there's a huge disparity here in society as both men and women are pretty adamantly opposed to having their parters go outside the marriage.
I'm pretty sure someone put together a greatest hits list once upon a time (insomniasexx, maybe???) during an IRC chat shortly after I got engaged. Needless to say it didn't reflect kindly on me. I could either do some mental gymnastics to stitch together my former and current views, or I could just throw my hands up and say that I learned some things about myself that I didn't know between then and now.