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comment by OftenBen
OftenBen  ·  3780 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I make people feel stupid? Patronized?

    it might be an idea to try something else.

Like get out of the car?

I'm loathe to just change topics and 'leave something until later' because I come from a family where 'We'll take care of it later' means 'We'll take care of it never.' I want to address a problem when I see it, so the solution has context, rather than in some abstract way that never actually effects change.