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comment by OftenBen
OftenBen  ·  3780 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I make people feel stupid? Patronized?

Exactly!

My mindful response to a stressor is what I stated above. If I can do something about it, do something about it and stop worrying. If I can't do anything about it, stop worrying. So when I see someone who is just stressing themselves (And me in the case of Ex 2) out, I can't fathom why they can't just let it go, it seems toxic as fuck.