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thenewgreen  ·  4086 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Do I Say Next? A Love Story for Shy People

The desire to talk about one's self is not unique to the fairer sex. Both men and women alike enjoy talking about themselves. You are right though, be attentive and actively listen and whether you're speaking to a man or a woman, they will be more likely to "like" you.





b_b  ·  4086 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree, but I've never tried to get with a man, so I have a very particular perspective, biased as it may be.

thenewgreen  ·  4086 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Fair enough, but knowing that men also like to talk about themselves will make those awkward functions where you don't know people less awkward.

But then, as you know psychologically I'm in to dudes.