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glitchinthematrix  ·  4326 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: Getting Over It: How Do We Recover?

I couldn't agree with you more on the sex life part. Kinda hard to get over being so intimate with someone for so long and then not having them there anymore... I also agree with breakups being an excellent motivator for personal growth. It took me a while to get used to not having a girlfriend or being in a relationship, but I eventually got over it -- with time, although I used that time more destructively, rather than constructively, I learned, and now I'm a slightly better person.