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AnSionnachRua  ·  4252 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Do Watch "Man on the Moon"

    I know her reputation, but maybe its that that drives me in that direction as well? I don't know. Do you think a person can find personal and spiritual redemption through bettering someone else's life
This seems bad because you're judging her based on her "reputation" (what that refers to in this context I do not know) which is not good thing to bring into a potential relationship of whatever kind.

Also, you should never enter a relationship with the idea that you can fix or "improve" them. People can only do that for themselves.