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mk  ·  4510 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Back from Michigan -and I have a Dilemma

I suppose if you had talked to the mother regarding the matter you might feel obligated. However I'd probably tell my 17 yo daughter that she screwed up, I was disappointed, and it was her job to make it right.

IMO the worst thing isn't the party, but that she didn't make sure that your house was in tip-top shape afterwards.

It sounds like it went well.