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rinx  ·  3014 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: From Pickup Artist to Pariah

It seems to me the difference is your focus. This guy collected women like Pokémon and grew to resent them when it still left him unsatisfied. You focused on yourself and your own goals, social skills, and fitness. Seems like maybe the answer is fixing yourself, not trying to fix others.