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arguewithatree  ·  3143 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Neat Freaks and Household Cleaners: Seeking Advice

I'm working on developing these habits: not needing to clean by being clean in the first place. If this is just how you are naturally, it might be hard to describe, but do you have advice for developing this?

Especially because shit piles up really easily with grad school & work and I'm still trying to rewire my brain to not associate shared spaces of the house with my creepy ex-roommate (it's okay I can eat in public because he's not gonna come lurk behind me and prepare to skin me).