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randomuser  ·  3154 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The End of Dating: Tinder and Hook Up Culture

Tinder was invented for non attached hookups. That's it. If you are on tinder, that is what you are looking for. I don't care what excuses you make, there is no other purpose and if you pretend that you're special, you're an idiot. But if you want real relationships, with real people, you should not be on tinder. The two perspectives are not cohesive. You cannot have free sex with tons of people and still expect to find a worthwhile relationship on the side, that's greedy as fuck an will never work in anyone's greedy favor.