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blackbootz  ·  3425 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 16th intermittent quotation thread

    One of the great insights of psychoanalysis is that you never really want an object, you only want the wanting, which means the solution is to set your sights on an impossible ideal and work hard to reach it. You won’t. That’s not just okay, that’s the point. It’s ok if you fantasize about knowing kung fu if you then try to actually learn kung fu, eventually you will understand you can never really know kung fu, and then you will die. And it will have been worth it.

-The Last Psychiatrist