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thundara  ·  3263 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Hubski Self Help Club. First challenge: Be Impeccable With Your Word

I like to argue, often just for arguing's sake, but when I do, I try to play by The Rules (Sort of overlaps with what you've linked, tng). But when I get pissed off, I deliberately throw all that out the window. No "I feel this way", no "I'm assuming this about you", just 100% uncompassionate anger.

It's difficult to hold back once one's been ticked off, especially when you know that it can only reduce the impact of the feelings you want to convey. Even when I know in advance that I'm about to throw out the rules I'll do it anyways. =/