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user-inactivated  ·  3460 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Attachment Styles and Close Relationships (links to quiz)

Anxious Preoccupied, though the graph indicates mostly just preoccupied and mildly anxious. I know from being inside my head how anxious I am, and I went with "Neither nor" answers most of the time since, having only been out since January and since I'm living in Ultra Red and am already infatuated with someone, haven't been in an actual relationship. Taking three hours to fall asleep = high anxiety.

    Combining your anxiety and avoidance scores, you fall into the preoccupied region of the space. Previous research on attachment styles indicates that preoccupied people tend to have highly conflictual relationships. Although they are comfortable expressing their emotions, preoccupied individuals often experience a lot of negative emotions, which can often interfere with their relationships.