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user-inactivated  ·  3565 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Paddling into the Waves or What I Learned from Not Muting

Don't ever COMPLETELY agree with me -- that would worry me! :)

Teaching by example isn't always effective but it does have the merit of not doing any damage.

I don't know about you, but I tend to feel that if I don't defend my statements people will just believe the last thing that was said. I know, intellectually, that this isn't true -- but the impulse is pretty strong. Still, tone makes a great deal of difference. You and I would probably disagree about most things, but I'm not inclined to argue with you. That's the payoff of civility.