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havires  ·  3565 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Paddling into the Waves or What I Learned from Not Muting

    I don't like mute because I'm seriously terrified of commenting now. If I piss off one of the established individuals on the site, since the site is so tight nit as it is and it's practically impossible for me to insert myself into this existing community, I'll probably end up in a pile of forgotten users. Do I really want to spend my time and effort making quality posts and comments if I'm just going to be shoved in the corner?

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