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blackbootz  ·  3832 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: An exercise in analyzing the advice we are given

    The last sentence especially I think is critical to truly "getting" empathy and understanding your fellow man. Needless to say, that's not the kind of stuff you're typically going to see in online comments.

Maybe not most places, but I'd like to think here you would. ;)

I strive to practice empathy in all I do (where's my gold medal??? I kid). Example. while driving: when someone cuts me off or doesn't notice the red light turned green, instead of assuming the worst, I try to invent in my head a story where their actions are perfectly reasonable to them, and are excusable because they're on their way to the hospital or because they're having a ridiculously bad day. I'd like to think it's saved me a few instances of high blood pressure.