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user-inactivated  ·  3685 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Quora top questions of the week: what does it feel like to be an unattractive woman?

But then so many women supposedly find "confidence" attractive!

Not to make a sweeping gender statement, but I've seen that in various forms multiple times. So there's a line to walk. And I don't know if I agree that it's better to sell yourself short strictly in terms of your gain, because who knows what opportunities you're missing.

EDIT: take for instance thenewgreen's conclusions below. He started off average and by the end of his post he was "fucking hot." I think it suits him.