Maybe you can explain more what you mean by “existence is not a state” and “existence is a measure of relationships.” For instance, "There are no solids. There are no things. There are only interfering and noninterfering patterns operative in pure principle . . . (B. Fuller): http://science1.wordpress.com/2008/10/22/physical-semantics/
What I meant by "existence is not a state", is akin to what Buckminster Fuller was getting at, I think. However, what I want to then move to address, is rooted in what bothers me about BF's statement: 'non-interfering' and 'pure principle'. Are these just turtles below the turtle we have dispelled? I only have a moment, but I'll get back to this and provide a more in-depth answer to your question in a day or two. It's a good question, and I want to. Thanks!