There is on my printer. I made a book too and there was a lot of trial and error. And now I don't remember which options I chose. I also have a Mac
"flip on short edge" for portrait and "flip on long edge" for landscape means you want to open your book vertically, like a calendar.
There's a booklet setting in my page layout options and I don't remember if I had to click that or not. I was also getting upside-down pages. I'm agreeing with the caveat that I remember it being more complicated