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user-inactivated  ·  3000 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Some of my best friends are rich

Well I don't think it's not worth reading, but I can't say as I feel much sympathy for the writer. The whole thing seems whiny because he is just talking about how much he vacillates between loving and hating his life as a writer. Yet, objectively, his life as a paid writer, his engagement, his success, is all pretty good. But instead of being able to enjoy it he complains about how much his friends make. If someone did that in talking with me I would dislike it. I don't see much difference here.

And I'm not saying there couldn't be a different use of written form to say something more profound. If he would have presented the feelings in a more complex way then I would have at least seen the point, but it's very factual (at least from his point of view). This entire piece could be countered with, "Well, the grass is always greener..." So I don't really get much out of it.

As well, and this might be me projecting, I feel like the main reason that this has any traction at all is because he paints all his friends as wealthy plutocrats who buy Yachts and pine over Lear jets. And that is a popular sentiment right now. Everyone wants to hate on the wealthy lately. So maybe I don't feel his intended way because not only should he be happy for his own achieved goals in life, but that he seems to be pandering to what he knows his readers want to hear about. How much the wealthy pine for their long lost dreams of creativity, and how he's underpaid even though he ostensibly gives so much more in his artistic endeavor. I'm not saying he's not genuine in his feelings, but I know that if I met someone like this writer has written about himself, it would not be someone whose company I would long for.





rezzeJ  ·  3000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think it's important to note that this piece is from 1998. He's a success now, but my google searches reveal most of his major awards/grants/etc came after this article. As such, at the time he was a person who'd put all this work and toil into something and had little to show for it. At least when he compared himself to his peers.

He was jealous of the monetary successes of his friends, whilst juxtaposing that with a feeling of relief that he's not in their shoes, doing their jobs and professions. All the while, these same people were jealous of the life he was so discontent with. It's no wonder he painted a picture of disillusionment. I guess it's the cliché of the 'grass is always greener.'

I think considering these facts puts this piece in a different light than the one you project on it.

user-inactivated  ·  3000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

In that light it is different.