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pleb  ·  3498 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: July 8, 2015

A video I'm editing for work had some setbacks last night and now I get to spend today redoing some of the work I've already done and troubleshooting an issue.

On the relationship front, marriage looms ever nearer while I wait for the lengthy K1 visa process to progress. Been feeling a little apprehensive since the fiance has a friend she used to be intimate with but is now friends with and wants to meet him in person. I don't particularly feel secure in that happening but it also feels like one of those things she really wants which naturally bothers me further. Not sure exactly how that will play out but at the end of the day I love her and am looking forward to being with her for keeps.





mk  ·  3498 days ago  ·  link  ·  

We dealt with the K1 right after 9-11. That was a process. Good luck.

As for the second issue, it's something you best just get comfortable with, IMHO. Trust is everything. If your fiance was inclined in such a way, far better to know now than later.

pleb  ·  3497 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    We dealt with the K1 right after 9-11. That was a process. Good luck.

I can only imagine. We've been lucky honestly. We're already at the NVC processing stage even though I only filed back in early May. It must have been arduous to try to get a K1 through right after 9/11.

    Trust is everything. If your fiance was inclined in such a way, far better to know now than later.

I guess I just don't trust the guy. I know that's cliche but I don't know him all that well. You're probably right that I need to trust her and stop being paranoid about it though. She's worthy of the trust.