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ecib  ·  3449 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Darron Wilson not indicted

    Never want to see this sentiment on hubski again

Flag, I think it's worth considering the notion that not wanting to see a bit of anger regarding the Ferguson decision boil over on a website could be construed as a kind of privilege.

As I mentioned earlier, there is a pain and a rage that goes so far beyond this incident. It is deep and it is justified imho.

I don't want to see rude comments , but I don't want to see people in our community in pain from being systematically targeted, killed, and shat on by our justice system and countrymen more. I don't want to see riots, burning, and looting, but I don't want to see said fires that stoke that either. I don't want to not understand the causes and symptoms both.

Instead of rebuffing this pain, I'll humbly make the suggestion that we explore it and attempt to understand and know it better instead. There are massive structural problems in our country's justice system with respect to minorities. There is honest room for righteous anger and indignation. Room on Hubski too. What do you think about that?





user-inactivated  ·  3448 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I see what you mean, but I have to disagree that expecting civility on hubski should ever be construed as a form of privilege.

I certainly won't hold a grudge, though. I hope it helped some people to vent.

coffeesp00ns  ·  3448 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm with you. there is justifiable rage, and then there is being incapable of 1.) putting it down in words (and appealing to emotions instead) and 2.) living with the fact that people, even people you might respect, disagree with you. telling people to "leave" or not to speak is not, and will never be okay, or justifiable.

I've said this before in other places, and have even been accused of "internalized victim blaming" for believing it, but I believe that the moment you lose your cool in an argument (especially on the internet), you've lost, and it's your fault that you lost. Nothing but calm, cool, and collected is going to get a message across, and all the screaming into the wind that people do accomplishes nothing.

Don't like someone's opinion? have a fight. While i'd prefer civil (if terse) discourse, I'd rather a fight than shitty college undergrad level censorship.

user-inactivated  ·  3448 days ago  ·  link  ·  

And the additional layer, the point I was trying to make early in the thread, is that appeals to emotion are what causes racism. Appeals to base biological impulses which we've been trying to stamp out with reason since time immemorial.