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uh_oh · 3936 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Made You Know the Relationship Was Over?
Maybe this is just me, but in any relationship I have- especially a relationship- I enter in hopes that it changes me somehow. I want my relationship to be a dynamic in my life, shake things up a little, and I don't mean be dramatic and loud. I mean I want it to matter, and for it to matter for me something needs to happen out of the ordinary, for better or worse.
Of course, when you start lying to yourself, about yourself, and you don't feel comfortable who you've become because you feel its the wrong person to be, then show yourself out. All I'm saying is don't pass up on something great because its testing your vulnerability.