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throwaway12  ·  2440 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What happened to ThatFanficGuy?

Don't talk about people unless you are talking to that person.

To do otherwise does absolutely nothing constructive. It makes people feel outed and ganged up on, and can do wonders for cementing your own views on people, either based on the efforts of others to make you feel that way about them or based on your own baises.