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user-inactivated  ·  2724 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: November 2, 2016

    no but really, it's like I don't know where the line is between "too much" and "not enough" anymore. ahhhhhh.

"Hey, I get off work early tomorrow. You free for coffee?"

If she says "Yes," great.

If she says no cause she's busy but wants to make plans for something else, great.

If she says no cause she's busy and doesn't offer an alternative, extend another invitation early next week. If the same thing happens again, try once more. If you get the same reault, move on.