Ok, I am going to have to say that I called it: http://hubski.com/pub?id=2542 :)

My bet is that gravity is a perspective experienced existing within a quantum condensate. That is, gravitational information is instantanous. There are no gravitational waves, and there is no transmitting particle. I think gravity is more likely the opposite of entropy.

I'm (slowly) espousing my crazy theory on it.

http://hubski.com/pub?id=837 http://hubski.com/pub?id=1053

I'll update that soon.