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thefoundation  ·  4602 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What does being in love feel like to you?

Not presently in love, however the feeling when it hit me was...comfort. I feel like when I love someone in the way of a relationship that the main feeling that I get out of it is comfort. When in love I have felt happy and in "the correct place" in my life at that time. It might come from some primal instinct where I want to have a mate and it feels good knowing I do.

But it also comes from the ability to relax and focus on other pursuits in my life, knowing that I have a love to support me. Simple creature comforts, but it feels good all the same.





Saydrah  ·  4602 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Are you able to call up that feeling in a nostalgic way now, when you're not in love?

(I'm having this really odd realization tonight, which is why I asked, that I have no emotional memory whatsoever of ever being in love, even though I have memories of all of the peripherals, and knowledge that at the time I meant it and had those feelings.)

thefoundation  ·  4602 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yes, but not quite the same depth. Knowing that you're connected to someone who feels those same feelings adds another level to it. In my opinion at least.