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kantos  ·  260 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Moments

  "Why aren't you eating?"

  Swallow the food, not the emotion.

  "I can't, I'm nervous around you..."

  Swallow the food, not the emotion.

  "I'm back to where I was before the break up with him...."


  ".... But we can continue building a solid friendship despite the attraction..."

  What does 'back before the break up' mean? Were the last 4 months not building upon a friendship?

  "Hey, I just wanted to let you know. My husband encouraged me to tell you: She referenced him as her boyfriend of [how long since the beginning]."


  Was I being used as an emotional crutch? But I had acted out of good faith under the information I had. I think. 

  How am I going to define my relationship with her in this dynamic...

Do I want one?