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worm  ·  3207 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Feminist woman admits that online dating is easier for women

Most men and many women bear the brunt of silence, while most women and many men bear the brunt of noise. Noise, noise, noise. People commenting on your looks, dissecting your hastily written profile and sharing their judgements, baring their souls (and often their genitals) before you can even say hello. How do you begin to sort through that mess? I never could.