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kleinbl00  ·  2250 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Ask Hubski: How do you guys work to avoid engaging in gossip at work?

Gossip is not feedback.

Say it with me: Gossip is not feedback.

Gossip is communication about a third party intended to provoke affinity and allegiance. Feedback is direct communication intended to alter behavior. Conflate the two at your peril.